JuZ a CuP oF CoFFee part (3)
Seniority
Back to school; remember when we were at secondary school in form 1 especially at boardin school how we are treated cam hampeh,called as junior or freshy by senior. Of coz for da 1st year,senior alwayz takes advantages on us, hey baju merah!! Bring me one jar of drink from dining room!! Wash my clothes!! Hey jerk, come inside, got some task for you!!! Usually dey got inordinate power and influence over the hostellier. Sumertimez dey alwayz find out our guilty juz to make as a reason for we do something to 'em. I remember back one year when I was form 2, yup usually the seniority as could see is highly in form 2 pupils (tyme2 ni la aku nak balas dendam kesumat,hoho), by that time too lazy to wash our clothes and clean the dorm especially a day near by semester break holiday. Freshy will walks to their dorm thru front of our dorm balcony. And it is decent la bebudak too noise dat and dis. And juz using that reason too noise everyone of them have to mop and brush that corridor "ni hukuman sbb korg bising". Typical dialogue and it is will repeated year by year and batch by batch. One thing it never been change for every form 2, when form 2 wanna "fly" for cop a food or cigarette definitely dey hav to get permissible from upper form and often like sekotak rokok or "nasik stengh" for one permit. Kerenah birokrasi betul,huhu...i dun know la whether dey halal bi halal on dat food and cigarette. But honestly I've had never touch those stuffs, takut gak haram!!!
My roommate
Ironically when we step into university this thing I can say dunnot happen here, I dun know it is because of maturity or others reason.(Actually I miss dat "rokol" though!!!) At here we are more considering to juniors wi' help'em to adopt the new situation and environment as well as teach 'em how to tackle learning here. At the beginnin, most of them call us as abg, but u know it is sooo kinky sumeone tat 1 year younger than you call you as abg, I think dey also feel the same way. So at last no-abg2. Talkabout my junior roomie, I think is good to get them because we are so close, besides we are not shamelessly to bring them hanging out wi' our friendz, watchin football 2gether, play futsal and so on. Even how to describe how close we are sekali buku2 last years aku pon my roomie sapu because sepp budget to buy the new one, I ain't use dat book indeed, so nvm la. One bit, both my junior roomie like to outing, maybe if we want to compare the whole time my 2 yeaz outing to him only 1 year. betcha,he win. Wuteber dey still respect and honor us as their senior. that enough!!!
Gangsterisme
Remember in 2004-2005 we were shocked by gangsterisme at 2nd school. dat time appear variety of names suchas high council la, rumah putih n rumah hitam branch's rules la. Frankly speakin da junior at 2nd school nowadays do not put a lot of respect to senior, dey only ikut sesuka kepala sendiri je. where is the pepatah dat yar mum alwayz tell u "masuk kandang kambing menyembik,masuk kandang harimau mengaum". Being as senior dey merely demand junior aware, appreciate and alert dat they are older and more experience at that place. Still, is not too much if I say new teacher also have to respect this senior. There got happened at my school form 5 fights against one new teacher. Could you imagine about 20 persons make around circle against dat teacher. Yes dude, it is rude, no adab, but sumetimez senior have intense ego and you gotta respect that ego as long as not too much. So people should understand la. It is not happen at school institution only, Harian Metro had published front page couple of weekz ago almost new nurses had bullied by the senior. It also happen in the another workplace, factory, food franchise, office, shop as well as kedai makan too. But sumetimes senior seemingly over greasy too, so you gotta know which one you should report to above and which one you have to cool it down. But as a junior at school you have to follow 2 rules; by school and senior.
What we'd learned?
I got learned something from dis, being as junior at 2 timez in my life. Juz follow an apt rule. Respect your senior despite they are probably too silly for us, because of wut, it look like they dun kacau you if you dun kacau them. At workplace it is spot-on the seniority will become one of criterion in selecting for promotion. So please be patience till you become senior. Fair or not, it's da way thing will be. And remember sumetimez you will protected by seniority.
eh,where is my coffee hah??
p/s: experience above juz from my observation, i am not the one that di-buli or pem-buli, aku kan budak baik. bully sket2 itu adalah kot, bergurau2 manja between senior n junior mayb lebey tepat,hohoho!!! to everyone juniors yg aku buat "gurau2 manja" dulu, sori a-lot eh.
Tribute to mendiang MGG Pillai
Seorg reformis dan wartawan, antara org yg terawal yg membuat on-line jurnal report yg berbentuk kewartawanan di malaysia.,disamping menjadi columunis utk Harakah. u can reach his writing at www.MGGpillai.com. ther u can read his opinion about malaysia and world n you will gotta learn sumethin ~bagaimana utk mengkritik. semoga dgn sedikit sbyk sumbangan beliau terhadap perkembangan islam mendapat perhatian dr yg Esa.